TULSA - Ellinor Michelle Cain Kirk was born October 4, 1956, in Tulsa OK. She departed this life on July 5, 2021, in Tulsa OK, after a long illness. She attended Tahlequah Public Schools and graduated in 1974. As a young adult, she joined the US Navy and was honorably discharged in 1982. Michelle was a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother. She was a hard worker and excelled at any job she took on. She was a good cook, could sew a fine hand, loved her home, and enjoyed great movies. She was close to her three sisters and loved her children, but her grandchildren were the hearts of her heart. She is preceded in death by her parents, Clyde D. Cain and Margaret Blair Cain, and by her sister, Lianne Cain. She is survived by her husband, Alan Kirk, and by their children, Candice O'Connell Collins of Walton IN, Ian Kirk and wife Brittany of Tulsa OK, and Kylie Kirk and partner Austin Tipton of Fort Walton Beach FL. The grandchildren Michelle loved so dearly are Taylor Collins, Lane Collins and Lillian Hammond of Walton IN, Cooper Kirk of Tulsa OK, and Harrison and Henley Tipton of Fort Walton Beach FL. She is also survived by her sisters, Marissa and husband Scott Wiseley, and Jennifer and husband Paul Sparks, both of Fort Gibson OK. A memorial service with interment of ashes will be held on Monday, July 19, 2021, at 10am at the National Cemetery in Fort Gibson OK