Pamela Jo Bachtold was born on the 28th day of November in 1986, her mom Jeanette went into labor on thanksgiving at the dinner table the day before she made her appearance into the world.

She was the baby in her family, who loved to spend time with her grandmother, and all the days getting to play with her cats and dogs.

As Pamela got older she loved to run around outside with her older sisters Candace & Cathy and all the friends on their small neighborhood street on mingo, as they all grew up together she enjoyed many activities, including skipping school, riding bikes, skating, spending time with her family and very close best friends.

As a mom Pam loved her children and loved to share her and her dad's love of movies, tv shows and games with her kids and her nieces and nephews, she spent many hours teaching them the secrets to her favorite games, Super Mario and Donkey Kong and quoting along with the lines of her favorite movies as they all watched and spent time together, she also enjoyed family camping trips at the lake with her brother and kids father who spent time fishing and making bonfires, all creating memories, her children and family will always cherish.

One of her children's and nieces' favorite memories is also the multiple summers she spent with them at vacation bible camp at a small church in Tulsa called John Knox, volunteering and spending time learning about the Bible together. She always wanted to encourage the kids going to church and also spent many Wednesday nights at a small full gospel church in Owasso with her mom Jeanette and her children, niece Jessica, and aunt MaddLee.

Pamela is survived by her four children Nevaeh, Darrell, Ellie and Aiyana, her mother Jeanette, her sisters Meredith, Candace and Cathy, and 11 nieces and nephews.

She will be welcomed in heaven by her paternal grandparents, Eddy and JoAnn Bachtold and maternal grandmother, Cathrine, her father David, her older brother Matthew and her youngest daughter Minnie pearl.