Theda Fae Gasnier Laighton was born to Grant and Eva Sease, January 8, 1923 in Nemaha, Iowa and passed from this life due to complications from a fall, April 19, 2012 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her husband of fifteen years, Robert H. Laighton in 2010. Theda served in the WAVES during WWII, stationed at NATTC Norman, OK where she met and married Loyd Gasnier, whom preceded her in death in 1992. She retired as secretary to the Principal of Monte Cassino School. She is survived by her sister Burndetta Phillips from Iowa, her children Robert Lloyd Gasnier and wife Deanna of Pine Bluff, Arkansas, Judy Fae White and husband David of Disney, Okla- homa. Theda's surviving grandchildren are Troy Gasnier and Travis Gasnier of Fayetteville, Arkansas and Ryan White of Tulsa, Oklahoma. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to your favorite charity in her memory and grant her wishes per the following, 'Cremate what is left of me and scatter the ashes to the wind to help the flowers grow. If you must bury something, let it be my faults, my weaknesses and all my prejudices against my fellow man. Give my soul to God. If by chance you wish to remember me, do it with a kind deed, word or hug to someone who needs you. If you do all I have asked, I will live forever.'